Toys

I've been attempting to compose a post about how I feel about toys and my favorite places to look at toys, at the request of some friends and family.

These are some of the things I think about when picking toys.

What is it made of? Will I be worrying about the chemicals ingested when/if the toy goes into my child's mouth? Is it a non-hard wood like MDF or particle board, which will off gas chemicals? Is the paint or coating specifically stated to be non-toxic? Is it made of natural materials?


Where is it made and who made it? Is it made in China? Is it made in a factory? Is it it made in America? Will I be wondering if it is just a matter of time before it shows up on the recall list? Am I wondering if I should pick up a lead test kit for the paint? Is it likely a child made this, who has no toys of his or her own?

Does this toy inspire creative play? Is it an open-ended toy, able to be used in multiple ways?

I like to do some research before buying toys, because I've experienced to many times buying something, THEN researching it, and regretting my purchase. I also watch toy recalls and have noticed many recalls for cheaply made toys, lead paint, toys with dangerous components, and more. The conclusion I have come to overall, is quality is much more important than quantity, in fact, I think quantity can overwhelm a child, making it hard for them to get into that "creative play" mode.

So what are good toys and where do you find them? I think this probably differs a little with each child, as far as their interests, but I also believe there are a few things that are universal.

1. Toys that help a child to mimic what he sees people do. Children want to learn how to be adults. Kitchens, dishes, pretend food, brooms & dustpans, babies, slings etc.

2. Dress Up - A truck or drawer with different hats, silks, clothes, socks, etc.

3. Art & Sensory - Paper, paint, brushes, clay, etc. Water, sand, beans, crafts.

4. Dollhouses - Miniature people, miniature animals and the settings they go in. Little cars, beds, chairs, etc.

5. Books & games. Reading to and with children and playing games are fun, and a basic part of family life.

I'm sure there is more, but I'm coming from the perspective of a not yet two year old. I've seen Liam show interest in all of these things. He also seems to like the challenge and accomplishment of a puzzle.

On another note - the best things are time and experiences. People above things always.

My next post will be actual places that have cool toys.